School is back in session. Rhythms have formed, schedules are filled, and busyness now rules. September is a good time to remind your kids about what is truly important. Of course, learning, grades, and behavior are all important, but don’t forget the spiritual aspect of your child. How can they be light in their school this year? How could they be the hands and feet of Jesus to their classmates and teachers?
Remind them of who they are. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus told the people, “You are the light.” For younger children, you might need to be more literal and show them how to be like Jesus, then challenge them on what that would look like. Speak encouragement over them, such as: You are brave. God is with you. God will help you. Older children may understand what it means to be light, but also need some guidance.
Look for opportunities. Encourage your children to think about how they could use their hands or feet at school. How might they use their hands? Could they hold a door open for someone or carry something for the teacher? Their feet could remind your child to share about Jesus at lunch or on the playground, like the beautiful feet mentioned in the Bible (Isaiah 52:7).
Pray for strength and courage. Before your kids leave for school, ask God to infuse them with courage to shine brightly in the hallways and classrooms. Encourage your child to pray for the bully, teachers, staff, and friends. Remind them that they can pray silently before taking an exam or eating lunch. Practice role-playing how to handle difficult situations with your kids. This will boost their confidence.
Offer leadership opportunities. This Thursday, September 9, is See You at the Pole (SYATP). During this nationwide student-led event, kids, teachers, and parents gather around the flagpole to sing and pray for their schools. Visit the SYATP website to learn how your child can participate in or organize this event at their school campus.
Look for teachable moments. Remember, your child is learning to be a light. They don’t have the experience or know-how of how to shine for Jesus yet. Model this behavior at home or while going about your day. Have conversations around the dinner table about missed and successful opportunities to be light. Discuss specific situations on how to be kind to others or treat those who don’t act nicely. Don’t expect your child to be perfect. Give them grace and time to grow their light. But do offer praise and encouragement when you see them acting like Jesus.
What a difference your child could make this year.
Sally Cressman is the author of “The Dance of Easter.” Sign up for her email list to receive “Lunch Box Cards for Kids.” She’d also love to connect on Instagram.
