Religion has been a source of meaning, moral guidance, and community for billions of people throughout history. It can inspire, encourage ethical behavior, and be strength in times of hardship. Religion can serve as a moral code. But can there be such a thing as being too religious?
The question may seem a little offensive at first glance, however, is valid and necessary, particularly where religion plays an important role in our life, especially living here in the “Bible Belt”.
It is important to define what “too religious” means. Instead of having a deep, sincere faith it suggests imbalance, extreme dogmatism, or disconnected from empathy.
Religious belief has sometimes justified discrimination or even hatred towards others. Extreme religion has also been used to control or manipulate others, especially in cult-like settings. A religious life dominated by fear rather than love and grace can be emotionally paralyzing rather than uplifting. When religious rules become more important than relationships or compassion, a person’s life can become rigid and narrow and truly miss the entire message of Christianity.
So, can you be too religious? The answer is yes, especially if your religious commitment begins to harm yourself or others and fosters intolerance – specifically when a person seems to justify their cruel behavior.
Deep faith is not the problem. Religious issues arise when belief becomes inflexible, oppressive, or even disconnected from compassion and reason. Relationships suffer.
Faith, like any powerful tool, must be wielded with care. At its best, religion elevates the human spirit. At its worst, it can narrow it. The challenge as well as the opportunity is to practice a faith in Jesus that remains both deeply rooted and open-hearted.
Most of our religious traditions should emphasize love, service, humility, and forgiveness. When practiced in this spirit, religion can be a powerful force for good. If it crosses into judgement, rigidity, and fear, it can lose sight of its own higher calling.
Next time we find ourselves in a challenging situation to be “religious”, allow love to be your guide.
“It is the love of God that brings people to repentance”. (Romans 2:4). We were never called to be “religious” – just to love others.
Rhonda Smart, rhondalsmart@gmail.com
